I've tried being patient. I've tried seeing it from her perspective. I've given her the benefit of the doubt. What have I gotten in return? Zero response to every medium of communication I have for her. I've written, called, IM'd, everything. She doesn't write back, doesn't pick up the phone, doesn't return phone calls, and disappears from IM as soon as I say hello.
She's had her chance to talk to the family. Now it's my turn.
Starting tonight, I'm calling all the family contacts I have, one by one. And if I can find it, I'm starting with my younger brother.